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"KISSING 101 - How To Kiss"
"I have found men who didn't know how to kiss. I've always found time to teach them". ~ Mae West ~
Ever wondered if there was a better way to be kissing? Did you ever try to give a kiss that delivers but didn't quite make the cut?... Then try some of these handy tips and guidelines and see if we can't get you seeing Skyrockets!
The Basic Kiss
#1 The MOST important rule of all... Always and I mean ALWAYS make sure your breath is fresh and clean. When brushing your teeth, remember to brush your tongue. #2 The first thing to do when kissing is RELAX. Think about nothing at all but the kiss you're giving. Better yet, just don't think. #3 Start with lips either just slightly parted or closed. No tongue! Relax your lips and allow yourself to feel like you are completely confident in what you are doing. It makes a world of difference! #4 Slowly let your lips meet there's and kiss like there was nothing you would rather be doing than kissing your partner right then and there. #5 Another pointer a lot of people forget is the usage of your hands. Use them in non-erotic zones, like the back, the shoulders, the arms. Another great place is the back of the neck with a light massage to the nape. Even try cupping their face in your hands and use your thumbs to gently stroke their cheeks. #6 Make it romantic. Kissing is one of the most romantic things you can do, try not to always make it sexual. Kisses are meant to be moist not wet, Don't Slobber. If your date shys away from you, don't force the kiss. No matter how well you have mastered the fine art of kissing, your kiss will mean nothing unless you both feel the mood. Remember, NO matter who your kissing, pretend your doing it for the first time ever!
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. Here are a few basic tips to help create a great French kiss. #1 Relax! Your lips should be relaxed, your body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. #2 Your lips should be slightly parted but not gapping. Again we don't want the big mouth bass theory to come in to play here. Just hold your mouth open as you normally would breathing through your nose. #3 Position your heads slightly tilted in opposite of eachother, you don't want to bump noses. If he/she tilts to the left... you tilt to the right. Now let your lips meet. #4 Extend your tongue just past your teeth about 1-2 inches. DO NOT stick your entire tongue out! Nothing can ruin a kiss faster then having a ridged muscle jammed down your throat. Let your tongue relax but not go limp. Your tongue should go just beyond there teeth and into the mouth as there's will do the same. As this happens, your tongues will touch. #5 The tongue dance: Now just circle the tip of their tongue using your tongue. Everybody kisses differently, but basically just mimic each others movements. If he/she flicks their tongue over yours... you do the same, if they exlpore the inside of your mouth with their tongue... you do the same. But the most important key to remember is... always have your tongue doing something. That's all there is to it! LAST MINUTE TIPS: Create a pause if you need to swallow saliva. Nothing will ruin a kiss quicker then letting spit escape from the corners of your mouth. Most importantly... Some people think a french kiss is too intimate for a first date. Only attempt a french kiss if you know for sure your partner will be receptive.
Together you two can explor different
things to do with your tongues. Here are a few fun options:
Tongue-O-War: Each of you tries to put your tongue in the others mouth while at the same time, use your tongue to block entry of there's in to your mouth. The Artic Kiss: Take a small piece of ice, you and your partners tongues must work together. Sandwitch the ice between both of your tongues and wait for it to melt. You'll be spending the whole time just trying to get in sync before the ice melts. Hot Potatoe: turns passing it back and forth using only your mouths. Keep going until the ice melts. The bigger the ice cube the longer it will last.
I will share with you, my trade mark Kiss.
This might take a little practice to perfect. And when you do... I guarentee this will be the kiss that delivers! After a French kiss and immediately after pulling away, go back to the lips and give a VERY soft and gental bite to the lips. More like a little tug using your teeth and end that with another gental tug this time using your lips and a slight sucking motion. End that by giving one more quick, soft French kiss. Perform this kiss in a teasing manor.
In the rules of Kissing...
Never Be Afraid To Try Something New...
Kiss your partner in places other than the lips. Like kisses across the forehead. Here are a few other places to try.
Crook of the arm. Behind their ear. Tip of their nose. Back of their neck. Underside of their forearm. Curve of their waist. Palm of their hand. Inside their wrist. Under their chin. Their eyelids. Inside of their ankle. Their collar bone. Tips of their fingers. Their spine. Small of their back. Their tummy. Behind their knees.
A Time to KissThere is always time for a kiss but some places can be more fun and romantic. Below is a list of a few great places and occasions to kiss or be kissed!
When you first see your love. Always... when your love is leaving somewhere. At a stoplight. On the beach at sunset or sunrise. In the morning. Last thing before you go to bed! In the movies. In the shower! When you are just about to go somewhere. By the moonlight. By candlelight. At a wedding. On vacation. As a surprise. While eating strawberries But Always remember... anytime or anywhere with your love is a great time to kiss or be kissed!
Some Of My Favorite Kissing Quotes
"Kissing is like drinking salt water; the more you drink the more your thirst increases." "A Kiss is just another reminder that two heads are better than one." "I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth." - Chico Marx "A kiss is something you can not give without taking, and can not take without giving." - Anonymous "Smile, it's the second best thing you can do with your lips." - Author Unknown "You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince." "Nothing breaks the silence like a kiss" "Hugs and kisses are ways to express what cannot be said" "My heart smiled when you kissed my lips, what a sweet surprise" - Jan Arden "I believe in long, slow, deep, wet kisses that last three days" -Kevin Costner
Their is nothing worse then
having a kiss misinterpreted. Maybe this can help. Kiss on the hand - I adore you. Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends. Kiss on the chin - You are cute! Kiss on the neck - I want you. Kiss on the lips - I love you. Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.
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